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The Need for Balance
Faith in Islam is a path between extremes. A believer does not despair of Allah’s mercy, and does not feel so safe that he ignores Allah’s warnings. Allah praises those who avoid exaggeration and excess, and follow a straight, middle way.
Allah says that the Ummah of Muhammad ﷺ is a community of balance and moderation, described as a just and middle nation so that it can bear witness over other nations.
"And thus We have made you a justly balanced nation that you will be witnesses over the people and the Messenger will be a witness over you."
(Qur’an 2:143)
This balance is not only in actions, but begins in the heart. It is a harmony between love, fear, and hope in Allah, and between concern for this life and preparation for the next.
Islam calls to a straight middle path, avoiding every form of excess, neglect, and imbalance in belief and worship.
Between Hope and Fear
A Muslim always lives between hope in Allah’s reward and fear of His punishment. Neither side should overpower the other to an unhealthy degree. Allah mentions both hope and fear together when describing His true servants.
"Indeed, they used to hasten to good deeds and supplicate Us in hope and fear, and they were humbly submissive to Us."
(Qur’an 21:90)
Excessive fear can lead to despair, while excessive hope can lead to laziness and boldness in sin. Allah forbids despair completely.
"Say, 'O My servants who have transgressed against themselves, do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, He is the Most Forgiving, the Most Merciful.'"
(Qur’an 39:53)
At the same time, He warns against feeling secure from His plan and punishment.
"But no one feels secure from the plan of Allah except the losing people."
(Qur’an 7:99)
The Prophet ﷺ taught that both fear and hope must accompany a believer until death approaches. Anas ibn Malik رضي الله عنه reported that the Prophet ﷺ entered upon a young man who was dying and asked him about his condition.
"He said, 'How do you find yourself?' He said, 'By Allah, O Messenger of Allah, I have hope in Allah, and I fear my sins.' The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, 'These two (qualities) do not come together in a servant’s heart in such a situation except that Allah will give him what he hopes for and grant him safety from what he fears.'"
(Sunan at-Tirmidhi)
A believer must combine fear of Allah’s displeasure with hope in His mercy, without falling into despair or feeling completely safe from punishment.
Balance in Worship and Daily Life
Islam rejects extremism in worship and harshness toward oneself. Some companions once asked about the worship of the Prophet ﷺ and felt it was little compared to their own plans. One of them said he would pray all night without sleep, another said he would fast every day without break, and another said he would avoid marriage. When this reached the Prophet ﷺ, he corrected them.
"The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, 'By Allah, I am the one among you who fears Allah the most and is most conscious of Him, yet I fast and I break my fast, I pray and I sleep, and I marry women. Whoever turns away from my Sunnah is not from me.'"
(Sahih al-Bukhari, Sahih Muslim)
This hadith shows that true piety is not through abandoning the lawful or overburdening the body, but by following the balanced way of the Prophet ﷺ. Islam does not allow a person to neglect their family, health, or lawful worldly needs in the name of worship.
On another occasion, three men came to the houses of the wives of the Prophet ﷺ asking about his worship, then thought they should do more. The Prophet ﷺ repeated to them that he prays and sleeps, fasts and breaks his fast, and marries, and he considered abandoning his way to be a blameworthy turning away.
Allah also warns against excess in religion generally.
"Say, 'O People of the Scripture, do not go to extremes in your religion beyond the truth and do not follow the inclinations of a people who had gone astray before and misled many and have strayed from the right way.'"
(Qur’an 5:77)
True worship is to follow the balanced Sunnah of the Prophet ﷺ, not to invent strictness, excess, or self-denial that he himself did not practice.
Balancing Body, Mind, and Soul
Islam recognizes the needs of the body, the mind, and the soul. Each has a right that must be fulfilled without injustice to the others. A companion named Salman al-Farisi رضي الله عنه advised another companion, Abu ad-Darda’ رضي الله عنه, who had devoted himself so much to worship that he neglected other rights. When the Prophet ﷺ heard of Salman’s advice, he approved of it.
"Salman said to him, 'Indeed, your Lord has a right over you, your self has a right over you, and your family has a right over you. So give each one who has a right his due right.' The Prophet ﷺ said, 'Salman has spoken the truth.'"
(Sahih al-Bukhari)
This clear statement shows that unbalanced devotion that harms one’s health, family, or basic needs is not considered correct piety in Islam. The balanced believer eats and drinks within lawful limits, rests, learns, works, maintains relationships, and worships Allah with consistency.
Allah describes the servants of the Most Merciful as those who avoid excess and waste, but also do not fall into miserliness.
"And those who, when they spend, are neither extravagant nor stingy, but are between that, justly moderate."
(Qur’an 25:67)
Balance Between This Life and the Hereafter
Islam teaches concern for the Hereafter as the true home, but does not command abandonment of lawful worldly life. Allah tells the believers to seek both, with the Hereafter as the main goal.
"But seek, through what Allah has given you, the home of the Hereafter, and do not forget your share of the world. And do good as Allah has done good to you, and desire not corruption in the land. Indeed, Allah does not like corrupters."
(Qur’an 28:77)
The Prophet ﷺ encouraged earning, working, and providing for one’s family, considering it a kind of charity when done with sincere intention.
The Prophet ﷺ said, "You will not spend anything, seeking thereby the Face of Allah, except that you will be rewarded for it, even the morsel that you put into your wife’s mouth."
(Sahih al-Bukhari, Sahih Muslim)
This shows that ordinary acts can become worship when done for Allah. The believer aims for success in the hereafter, yet uses this world as a field of planting for that future harvest, not as something to be worshiped in itself.
A Muslim seeks the Hereafter as the main goal, while taking a fair share of the lawful in this life and using it as a means to please Allah.
Balance in Emotions and Relationships
Faith shapes how a Muslim feels and behaves with others. Islam does not accept coldness and harshness, nor uncontrolled emotions. The Prophet ﷺ was the most balanced in mercy, firmness, forgiveness, and justice.
Allah describes him:
"And indeed, you are of a great moral character."
(Qur’an 68:4)
And He describes the believers as merciful with one another and firm against those who are hostile to the truth.
"Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and those who are with him are strong against the disbelievers, merciful among themselves."
(Qur’an 48:29)
The Prophet ﷺ encouraged love and mercy in the family, and toward all people, but he did not allow love for anyone to go beyond obedience to Allah. True love is balanced, guided by faith, and not blind.
The Prophet ﷺ said, "Love your beloved moderately, perhaps he will become hated to you one day, and hate the one you hate moderately, perhaps he will become beloved to you one day."
(Sunan at-Tirmidhi)
This teaches that a believer must restrain emotions within the limits of wisdom and obedience to Allah.
Avoiding Extremism and Negligence
The Prophet ﷺ strongly warned against religious extremism and harsh excess, even when a person thinks it is towards more piety.
The Prophet ﷺ said, "Beware of extremism in religion, for those before you were destroyed because of extremism in religion."
(Sunan an-Nasa’i)
He also disliked making faith difficult for oneself or others, and instructed ease within the boundaries of the Sharia.
The Prophet ﷺ said, "Make things easy and do not make things difficult, give glad tidings and do not drive people away."
(Sahih al-Bukhari, Sahih Muslim)
At the same time, Islam warns against negligence, mocking religious duties, or taking the commands of Allah lightly.
"And they took their religion as amusement and play and the worldly life deluded them. So today We will forget them as they forgot the meeting of this Day of theirs and for having rejected Our signs."
(Qur’an 7:51)
Faith is corrupted both by excess and by neglect. A Muslim must avoid making the religion harder than Allah made it, and also avoid treating it as something light or unimportant.
Balance in Knowledge and Action
Islam calls to seeking knowledge and acting upon it, not to knowledge without action or action without understanding. The Qur’an criticizes those who carry knowledge but do not implement it, and also those who act upon ignorance.
"It is only those who have knowledge among His servants who truly fear Allah."
(Qur’an 35:28)
The Prophet ﷺ would ask Allah for beneficial knowledge and for protection from knowledge that does not bring benefit.
The Prophet ﷺ used to say, "O Allah, I seek refuge with You from knowledge that does not benefit, from a heart that does not humble itself, from a soul that is never satisfied, and from a supplication that is not answered."
(Sahih Muslim)
This shows that balanced faith joins correct belief, sound knowledge, sincere intention, and steady practice together.
Constant Correction and Returning to the Middle Path
Human beings naturally lean at times toward one side or the other. Balance in faith is not a fixed state that a person reaches once, but a continuous effort. A believer constantly reviews his heart, his worship, his dealings with people, and his priorities in life. When he notices excess or negligence, he returns to the middle path by seeking forgiveness and correcting himself.
Allah teaches the believers to ask for guidance to the straight path in every unit of prayer.
"Guide us to the straight path."
(Qur’an 1:6)
The straight path is the balanced way of those whom Allah has favored, neither the path of those who have earned His anger, nor of those who have gone astray, as mentioned in the next verse of the same chapter.
"The path of those upon whom You have bestowed favor, not of those who have evoked [Your] anger or of those who are astray."
(Qur’an 1:7)
Balance in faith is a lifelong journey of returning again and again to the straight path, by correcting one’s heart, intentions, and actions according to the Qur’an and Sunnah.