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The Reality of Death
Death is the doorway from this temporary life to the world of the unseen. It is not the end of the human being, but the end of the test and the beginning of the result. Allah reminds every soul that death is certain and inescapable:
“Every soul will taste death. Then to Us you will be returned.”
(Qur’an 29:57)
The believer understands that the exact time, place, and manner of death are already known to Allah and written in the Preserved Tablet. No one can delay or bring it forward, and no soul dies before its term is complete.
“And it is not [possible] for one to die except by permission of Allah, at a decree determined.”
(Qur’an 3:145)
Because death is certain but its time is hidden, the Muslim lives in a state of readiness. Everyday actions, words, and choices are weighed with the awareness that they may be the last. The Prophet ﷺ advised the believers to remember death often, so that the illusions of this life do not deceive the heart:
The Prophet ﷺ said: “Increase in remembrance of the destroyer of pleasures, death.”
(Tirmidhi)
This remembrance is not meant to create despair or paralysis, but to awaken the soul to use its limited time wisely, with repentance, good deeds, and preparation for what comes after.
A Muslim must believe with certainty that death is written by Allah, that it will surely come, and that it marks the end of action and the beginning of recompense.
The Moment of Death
At the moment of death, the unseen becomes partially seen to the person whose soul is being taken. The Prophet ﷺ described the presence of angels, the state of the soul, and the difference between the believer and the disbeliever at this critical moment.
Allah says:
“And the intoxication of death will bring the truth; that is what you were trying to avoid. And the Trumpet will be blown. That is the Day of [carrying out] the threat.”
(Qur’an 50:19–20)
For the believer who lived in faith and obedience, the angels of mercy descend with good news and gentleness:
“Indeed, those who have said, ‘Our Lord is Allah’ and then remained steadfast, the angels descend upon them, [saying], ‘Do not fear and do not grieve but receive good tidings of Paradise which you were promised.’”
(Qur’an 41:30)
The Prophet ﷺ described this in detail:
He ﷺ said: “When the believing servant is about to depart this world and move to the Hereafter, angels descend from heaven with white faces, as if their faces are the sun. They bring with them a shroud from Paradise and a perfume from Paradise, and they sit from him at a distance as far as the eye can see. Then the Angel of Death comes and sits at his head and says, ‘O good soul, come out to forgiveness from Allah and His pleasure.’ Then it comes out flowing like a drop of water flowing from the mouth of a waterskin...”
(Ahmad; similar wording in Abu Dawud)
For the disbelieving or rebellious soul, the experience is terrifying and painful:
In the same hadith, regarding the disbeliever, the Prophet ﷺ said: “When the disbelieving servant is about to depart this world and move to the Hereafter, angels descend from the heaven with black faces, bringing sackcloth, and they sit from him at a distance as far as the eye can see. Then the Angel of Death comes and sits at his head and says, ‘O wicked soul, come out to the anger of Allah and His wrath.’ Then the soul disperses in his body and is dragged out like a skewer passing through wet wool...”
(Ahmad; Abu Dawud)
These descriptions show that at the moment of death the realities of belief and disbelief are unveiled, and the soul begins to taste its future condition.
The Soul’s Departure and What Follows
Once the soul leaves the body, the angels carry it, and its smell and condition reflect its faith. The Prophet ﷺ informed that the soul of the believer is raised up and honored, while the soul of the disbeliever is rejected and humiliated.
The Prophet ﷺ said about the believing soul: “...They (the angels) do not pass by any group of angels but they say, ‘What is this good soul?’ They say, ‘It is so and so, son of so and so,’ calling him by the best names that he used to be called in this world. Until they reach the lowest heaven, and they ask for it to be opened, and it is opened for him...”
(Ahmad; Abu Dawud)
About the disbelieving soul he ﷺ said:
“...They do not pass by any group of angels but they say, ‘What is this foul soul?’ They say, ‘It is so and so, son of so and so,’ calling him by the worst names that he used to be called in this world. Then they come to the lowest heaven and ask for it to be opened, but it is not opened for him.”
(Ahmad; Abu Dawud)
Allah alludes to this rejection:
“Indeed, those who deny Our signs and are arrogant toward them, the gates of heaven will not be opened for them, nor will they enter Paradise until a camel enters into the eye of a needle.”
(Qur’an 7:40)
After this, the soul is returned to the body in a way known only to Allah, to begin the next stage, life in the grave.
It is a core part of Islamic belief that the soul continues to experience reward or punishment after death, and that it is questioned and returns to a form of life in the grave.
The Grave as the First Stage of the Hereafter
The grave is described as the first stop of the Hereafter. For some it becomes a garden of Paradise, and for others a pit from the pits of Hell. The Prophet ﷺ said:
“The grave is the first stage of the Hereafter. Whoever is saved from it, what comes after it will be easier for him. And whoever is not saved from it, what comes after it will be worse for him.”
(Tirmidhi)
This is known as the life of al-barzakh, the barrier between the world and the Day of Resurrection. Allah says:
“Until, when death comes to one of them, he says, ‘My Lord, send me back that I might do righteousness in that which I left behind.’ No, it is only a word he is saying, and behind them is a barrier (barzakh) until the Day they are resurrected.”
(Qur’an 23:99–100)
In al-barzakh, the test of action is over. There is no return, no chance to add more deeds, only anticipation and taste of the final outcome.
The Questioning in the Grave
Once the deceased is placed in the grave and the people leave, hearing their footsteps, two angels come to question the soul. These angels are known as Munkar and Nakir. The Prophet ﷺ described their questioning:
The Prophet ﷺ said: “When the deceased is buried, two black and blue angels come to him. One is called Munkar and the other Nakir. They say, ‘What did you used to say about this man Muhammad?’ The believer will say: ‘I bear witness that he is the servant of Allah and His Messenger.’ They will say, ‘Look at your place in the Fire, Allah has replaced it for you with a place in Paradise.’ So he will see both of them. But the hypocrite and the disbeliever will say, ‘I do not know. I used to say what the people said.’ It will be said, ‘You did not know and you did not recite (the Qur’an).’ Then he will be struck with an iron hammer between his ears, and he will scream, and everything near him will hear that scream except humans and jinn.”
(Abu Dawud; Ahmad)
In another hadith, the Prophet ﷺ mentioned three key questions:
He ﷺ said: “When a dead person is buried or one of you is buried, two blue-black angels come to him. One is called Munkar and the other Nakir. They say, ‘What did you use to say about this man (Muhammad)?’ He says what he used to say: ‘He is the servant of Allah and His Messenger. I testify that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is His servant and Messenger.’ They say, ‘We knew that you used to say this.’ Then his grave is expanded for him seventy cubits by seventy, and it is illuminated for him. Then it is said, ‘Sleep.’ But the hypocrite or disbeliever, when asked, ‘What did you use to say about this man?’ he says, ‘I do not know. I used to say what the people said.’ It is said, ‘You did not know and you did not recite.’ Then he is struck with an iron hammer between his ears...”
(Tirmidhi)
Other narrations explain that the questioning covers three essential matters: Who is your Lord? What is your religion? Who is your Prophet? The believer answers correctly with firmness, while the hypocrite and disbeliever fail, not because they lack memory, but because their hearts were not truly committed in this life.
Firm answers in the grave are a gift from Allah for those who lived with true faith, not merely with words or habits.
Allah refers to this firmness:
“Allah keeps firm those who believe, with the firm word, in worldly life and in the Hereafter.”
(Qur’an 14:27)
The Bliss of the Grave
For the believer who answers correctly and lived with sincere faith, the grave becomes a place of comfort and glad tidings. The Prophet ﷺ described this state clearly:
The Prophet ﷺ said: “When a believer is placed in his grave and his companions depart from him so that he hears their footsteps, two angels come to him, make him sit and say to him, ‘What did you use to say about this man, Muhammad?’ He will say, ‘I testify that he is the servant of Allah and His Messenger.’ It will be said to him, ‘Look at your place in the Fire. Allah has given you in exchange a place in Paradise.’ So he will see them both. As for the believer, his grave will be made spacious for him seventy cubits by seventy, and it will be illuminated for him. Then it will be said to him, ‘Sleep.’ He will say, ‘Let me go back to my family to inform them.’ They will say, ‘Sleep like the sleep of a groom whom no one awakens except the dearest of his family.’ He will remain like that until Allah resurrects him.”
(Tirmidhi; Ahmad)
In another narration:
He ﷺ said: “When the believer is about to die, angels of mercy come with silk and say, ‘Come out content and pleased and to a Lord who is not angry.’ ... Then a door to Paradise is opened for him in his grave, and its fragrance and breeze come to him, and his grave is expanded as far as his sight can see.”
(Ahmad)
This life in the grave is a real but unseen life. The believer enjoys a form of rest, hope, and happiness that continues until the Day of Resurrection. His or her good deeds, such as ongoing charity and beneficial knowledge, can continue to increase the reward even while in the grave.
The Prophet ﷺ said: “When a human being dies, all his deeds come to an end except for three: ongoing charity, beneficial knowledge, or a righteous child who prays for him.”
(Muslim)
The Punishment of the Grave
Just as there is bliss, there is also punishment in the grave for some people. This punishment is called ‘adhab al-qabr. It is part of the unseen world and a reality affirmed by the Qur’an and the Sunnah. Allah mentions the punishment of Pharaoh’s people in al-barzakh:
“The Fire, they are exposed to it morning and evening. And the Day the Hour is established [it will be said], ‘Make the people of Pharaoh enter the severest punishment.’”
(Qur’an 40:46)
The exposure morning and evening before the Day of Judgment indicates a punishment in the period of the grave and barzakh.
The Prophet ﷺ used to seek refuge regularly from the punishment of the grave and described some of its causes and forms:
He ﷺ said: “Seek refuge with Allah from the punishment of the grave.”
(Bukhari; Muslim)
The Prophet ﷺ passed by two graves and said: “They are being punished, but they are not being punished for something that was difficult to avoid. One of them did not protect himself from urine, and the other used to go about spreading gossip.”
(Bukhari; Muslim)
In another hadith, he ﷺ said:
“Most of the punishment of the grave is because of urine.”
(Ahmad)
He also mentioned the backbiter whose face is torn, the one who lies and whose mouth is split, and other scenes of punishment in the grave in long narrations.
Belief in the punishment of the grave is an essential part of the Muslim’s creed related to the unseen. A Muslim seeks refuge from it and avoids the sins that lead to it, such as neglect of purification, gossip, lying, oppression, and hypocrisy.
Protection from the Punishment of the Grave
Islam teaches practical ways to seek protection from the punishment of the grave. The greatest protection is sincere faith, obedience to Allah, and avoidance of the major sins that incur His anger. Alongside this, there are specific acts mentioned in the Sunnah.
One of the most emphasized is seeking refuge from the punishment of the grave in the prayer. The Prophet ﷺ taught his companions to say specific supplications before concluding the prayer:
The Prophet ﷺ said: “When one of you finishes the last tashahhud, let him seek refuge with Allah from four things: from the punishment of Hell, from the punishment of the grave, from the trial of life and death, and from the evil of the trial of the false Messiah.”
(Muslim)
He himself used to say:
“O Allah, I seek refuge in You from the punishment of the grave, and from the punishment of Hellfire, and from the trials of life and death, and from the evil of the trial of al-Masih ad-Dajjal.”
(Muslim)
Another means of protection is habitual recitation of certain passages of the Qur’an. Among them is Surah al-Mulk:
The Prophet ﷺ said: “There is a surah in the Qur’an of thirty verses which will intercede for a man until he is forgiven. It is ‘Blessed is He in whose hand is the dominion’ (Surah al-Mulk).”
(Abu Dawud; Tirmidhi)
Many scholars understood this to include protection from the punishment of the grave.
Martyrdom in the path of Allah is also mentioned as a protection:
He ﷺ said about the martyr: “He is forgiven at the first drop of his blood, he is shown his place in Paradise, he is protected from the punishment of the grave, he is safe from the greatest terror (of the Day of Judgment)...”
(Tirmidhi)
Righteous deeds in general are a shield. In one narration, the Qur’an and good deeds come in the grave as protection:
The Prophet ﷺ said: “When the dead person is buried... his prayer is at his head, his fasting is to his right, his zakah is to his left, and his good deeds of charity, kinship, and kindness are at his feet...”
(Ibn Hibban)
These narrations show that a life of obedience and consistent worship becomes the believer’s protection in the solitary moments of the grave.
Awareness of the Grave in Daily Life
The teachings about death and the grave are not simply information about the unseen. They are meant to shape how a Muslim lives every day. Visiting graves in a respectful and lawful manner reminds the heart of its own end and encourages preparation.
The Prophet ﷺ said: “I had forbidden you to visit graves, but now visit them, for they remind you of the Hereafter.”
(Muslim)
The Muslim benefits from this reminder without seeking blessings from graves, calling upon the dead, or believing they can independently help or harm. Instead, he or she prays for the deceased:
“And those who came after them say, ‘Our Lord, forgive us and our brothers who preceded us in faith and put not in our hearts [any] resentment toward those who have believed. Our Lord, indeed You are Kind and Merciful.’”
(Qur’an 59:10)
The Prophet ﷺ himself would pray for the people of the graves:
He ﷺ used to say when visiting the graveyard: “Peace be upon you, O inhabitants of the dwellings, believers and Muslims. Indeed, we will, if Allah wills, join you. We ask Allah for well-being for us and for you.”
(Muslim)
This balanced approach keeps the heart soft, aware, and focused on the true destination without falling into fear that leads to despair or denial that leads to heedlessness.
Correct belief about death and the grave should lead to repentance, increased good deeds, sincere supplication, and avoidance of sins, while maintaining trust in Allah’s mercy and justice.
The Grave as a Bridge to the Next Stage
Life in the grave is not the final state. It is a waiting period that ends when Allah commands the Trumpet to be blown, and all in the graves are resurrected. Until that moment, every soul in the barzakh tastes a portion of what awaits it.
Allah says:
“And the Horn will be blown, and whoever is in the heavens and whoever is on the earth will fall dead, except whom Allah wills. Then it will be blown again, and at once they will be standing, looking on. And the earth will shine with the light of its Lord, and the Record will be placed...”
(Qur’an 39:68–69)
Those who had comfort in their graves will rise with hope, and those who suffered punishment will realize the fullness of what is to come. The details of the Resurrection, Judgment, and the final homes of Paradise and Hell belong to later discussions. Here, it is enough to know that the grave is the first step toward that great gathering, and its reality is an essential part of the Muslim’s belief in the unseen.
By believing in death and the grave as Allah and His Messenger ﷺ described, the Muslim learns to see this world in its true size, not as an absolute home, but as a place of planting before the harvest in the Hereafter.