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7 The Year of Sorrow and New Hope

A Turning Point in the Seerah

The period known as “The Year of Sorrow” marks one of the deepest valleys in the life of the Prophet ﷺ. It was a time when personal loss, social isolation, and apparent setbacks all came together. Yet from within this darkness, Allah opened doors of new hope, new lands, and new hearts that would carry the message of Islam forward.

Scholars usually place “The Year of Sorrow” in the tenth year of Prophethood, around three years before the Hijrah to Madinah. By this time, the Prophet ﷺ had been calling the people of Makkah to Islam for a full decade. The Quraysh had tried mockery, slander, economic pressure, and boycott. Many of the weak and poor believers had been tortured. Yet the Prophet ﷺ remained constant in calling to Allah, trusting in His promise.

Allah describes this kind of unwavering trust in many places in the Qur’an, including in the story of earlier messengers. He says:

فَاصْبِرْ كَمَا صَبَرَ أُولُوا الْعَزْمِ مِنَ الرُّسُلِ
“So be patient, as were those of determination among the messengers.”
(Surah al Ahqaf 46:35)

The events of this year tested the Prophet ﷺ in his most sensitive human relationships, then prepared him for a new phase of the mission. To understand why this year is both “sorrow” and “new hope,” we need to look at the sequence and nature of what happened.

The Year of Sorrow brought the heaviest personal losses to the Prophet ﷺ in Makkah, yet it directly preceded some of the greatest openings: the journey to Ta’if, Isra and Mi'raj, and the first serious links with the people of Madinah.

The End of the Boycott and Its Aftermath

Before this year began, the Muslims and the clan of Banu Hashim had endured a harsh social and economic boycott in a valley of Makkah known as Shi'b Abi Talib. Food was scarce, trade and marriage ties were cut, and cries of hungry children were heard. This siege lasted about three years. When it finally ended, the Prophet ﷺ and his clan returned to Makkah physically weakened but morally unbroken.

The Quraysh saw that their strategy had failed to break his resolve. The Prophet ﷺ emerged from the boycott still calling to Allah, still reciting the Qur’an, and still caring for his followers. Yet the hardship had taken a great toll on the elderly guardian of the Prophet ﷺ, Abu Talib, and on his beloved wife Khadijah رضي الله عنها, who had stood by him with her wealth, her status, and her heart.

The release from the valley did not bring relief for long. It was as if Allah had decreed that once the external pressure of the boycott lifted, the Prophet ﷺ would be tested with inner, personal losses that cut even deeper.

Sorrow as a Form of Divine Training

When Muslims speak of “The Year of Sorrow,” they are not simply describing a sad memory. They are recognizing a special stage in Allah’s training of His final Messenger ﷺ. The Qur’an teaches that those whom Allah chooses for great tasks are often prepared through great trials:

أَحَسِبَ النَّاسُ أَنْ يُتْرَكُوا أَنْ يَقُولُوا آمَنَّا وَهُمْ لَا يُفْتَنُونَ
“Do people think that they will be left to say, ‘We believe’ and they will not be tested?”
(Surah al Ankabut 29:2)

The Prophet ﷺ himself said as reported by at Tirmidhi:

« أَشَدُّ النَّاسِ بَلَاءً الأَنْبِيَاءُ، ثُمَّ الأَمْثَلُ فَالأَمْثَلُ »
“The people most severely tested are the prophets, then those closest to them in likeness, then those closest to them.”

This year showed how tests can come in the most personal forms, through parents, spouses, family, and social standing. It also showed that deep grief is not a sign of weak faith, but something allowed and even honored when accompanied by patience and reliance upon Allah.

The Prophet ﷺ wept for his loved ones, felt pain at their loss, and feared for the future of the da'wah in Makkah. Yet he did not complain against Allah or lose trust in His wisdom. This balance between human emotion and spiritual firmness is one of the key lessons of this period.

Losses that Shook Makkah and the Messenger ﷺ

During this year, two pillars of support for the Prophet ﷺ left this world within a short time of each other. One was a support in the private sphere of his home, the other a shield in the public and tribal arena. The removal of both was a severe blow.

Around this time, the Prophet ﷺ experienced:

The death of Abu Talib, his uncle and tribal protector. Abu Talib did not embrace Islam, but he defended his nephew’s right to preach and used his influence to prevent the Quraysh from killing him. His death removed a political and social shield that had been vital to the survival of the mission in Makkah.

The death of Khadijah bint Khuwaylid رضي الله عنها, the first believer and the Prophet’s beloved wife. She was the one who had comforted him after the first revelation, believed in him when others denied him, and spent her wealth for the cause of Allah. Her passing left a deep emptiness in his heart and home.

These two deaths did not occur in isolation. They came after years of tension, insult, physical danger, and economic hardship. To lose both his main inside supporter and his main outside protector in a single year was a test that would have broken ordinary people. Yet Allah had prepared His Messenger ﷺ with faith, trust, and a heart connected to revelation.

The sorrow was so intense that the scholars of Seerah gave this year a name. It is reported that Ibn Ishaq and others referred to it as “Aam al Huzn,” The Year of Grief.

How Quraysh Responded After These Losses

The immediate result of Abu Talib’s death was a sharp rise in open hostility. The Quraysh no longer feared the anger of Banu Hashim as they had when Abu Talib was alive. They felt freer to insult and harm the Prophet ﷺ in public without tribal consequences.

An example is reported in the Seerah that one of the enemies once threw dust or the dirt of the path upon the Prophet ﷺ. He returned home covered in dust. One of his daughters began to wipe the dirt off him and wept. He ﷺ said to her, with gentle reassurance:

« لَا تَبْكِي يَا بُنَيَّةُ، فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ مَانِعٌ أَبَاكِ »
“Do not weep, my little daughter. Indeed Allah will protect your father.”

This period showed a clear shift. The struggle in Makkah moved from mostly verbal opposition to more frequent personal harm. Yet each act of cruelty only increased the moral contrast between the noble character of the Prophet ﷺ and the harshness of his opponents.

At the same time, the death of Khadijah رضي الله عنها left the Prophet ﷺ without the intimate comfort he had always found in his home. The house that had been a place of support and peace after every difficult day in Makkah now held the memory of loss. This double blow, inside and outside, is what makes the grief of this year stand out in the Seerah.

Sorrow and Hope in the Qur’anic Perspective

Although specific verses revealed at this exact time are discussed in detail elsewhere, the general Qur’anic pattern is clear. Allah often couples hardship with hints of coming ease, and sorrow with promises of support.

Allah says:

فَإِنَّ مَعَ الْعُسْرِ يُسْرًا. إِنَّ مَعَ الْعُسْرِ يُسْرًا
“For indeed, with hardship there is ease. Indeed, with hardship there is ease.”
(Surah ash Sharh 94:5–6)

The Arabic text uses the word “with” instead of “after.” This indicates that ease is not only something that comes later, but is also present in the very midst of hardship. The Year of Sorrow is a living example of this truth. While the Prophet ﷺ was losing his closest supporters in Makkah, Allah was preparing new supporters far away in Yathrib, the city that would later be called Madinah.

Another relevant verse is:

وَلَسَوْفَ يُعْطِيكَ رَبُّكَ فَتَرْضَى
“And surely your Lord will give you, and you will be pleased.”
(Surah ad Duha 93:5)

The Prophet ﷺ would soon witness the beginning of that divine giving. The doors of the heavens would open for him in Isra and Mi'raj, and the doors of a new land would open through the pledges of the people of Madinah. The same year that brought intense grief also marked the turning of the tide for the whole Ummah.

In the Seerah, great openings often come right after, and even through, the greatest trials. Hardship and ease are intertwined, not separate, in Allah’s plan.

From Personal Loss to Wider Horizons

The removal of tribal protection in Makkah forced the Prophet ﷺ to look beyond Quraysh for a new base for the message. This was not an act of desperation, but a wise and hopeful search for hearts ready to accept guidance.

In the period following the Year of Sorrow, the Prophet ﷺ would:

Travel to Ta’if to invite its leaders to Islam and to seek a safe place for the da'wah. Although they rejected him and harmed him, the journey to Ta’if opened a new chapter in his reliance on Allah and his mercy toward those who rejected him.

Experience Isra and Mi'raj, the miraculous night journey and ascension, which strengthened his heart, honored him before the inhabitants of the heavens, and brought the gift of Salah to the Ummah.

Meet individuals from Yathrib during the pilgrimage season in Makkah. Through them, the message would reach a new society that was tired of tribal fighting and ready for a unifying message.

These events, which belong to later chapters in detail, are all connected to the Year of Sorrow. Without the loss of Abu Talib’s protection, the urgency to seek a new base might not have become so clear. Without the loss of Khadijah’s companionship, the Prophet ﷺ might not have been shown, in so visible a way, that true support rests finally on Allah alone.

In this way, sorrow did not end the mission. It redirected and elevated it.

Lessons for the Believer

The Year of Sorrow holds several lasting lessons for Muslims who read the Seerah today.

First, it teaches that even the most beloved servant of Allah ﷺ was not spared grief. Losses in family, support, or status are not signs that Allah has abandoned someone. Rather, they may be stages in a larger plan that is still hidden. Surah ad Duha captures this beautifully:

مَا وَدَّعَكَ رَبُّكَ وَمَا قَلَى
“Your Lord has neither forsaken you nor hated you.”
(Surah ad Duha 93:3)

Second, it shows that faith does not cancel human emotion. The Prophet ﷺ felt pain, sadness, and worry. He remembered his loved ones, mentioned their virtues, and wept out of love and compassion. His patience was not the absence of feeling, but the choice to continue trusting Allah and to keep doing what Allah commanded.

Third, it reminds believers that support from people is a blessing, not a foundation. When good friends, family, or protectors are present, we thank Allah. When they are taken away, we recognize that the real Protector is still there. As Allah says:

حَسْبُنَا اللَّهُ وَنِعْمَ الْوَكِيلُ
“Allah is sufficient for us, and He is the best Disposer of affairs.”
(Surah Aal Imran 3:173)

Fourth, it highlights that the story of Islam is not one of constant outward success. It includes moments that, from a worldly view, look like defeat or loss. The wisdom of Allah becomes clearer only when we see how those moments prepare the way for later victories.

A core lesson of the Year of Sorrow: Deep grief and strong faith can exist together, and Allah may use the hardest chapters of a believer’s life to open doors that were previously unimaginable.

From Sorrow to New Hope

The name of this chapter itself, “The Year of Sorrow and New Hope,” captures the double nature of this period. It was not a year of sorrow alone. It was also the threshold of a new dawn.

After this year, the Seerah moves from a limited, deeply hostile environment in Makkah, to a broader stage in Ta’if and then Madinah. The Prophet ﷺ would move from being a persecuted caller in his own city to being a leader and lawgiver in a new community. The seeds of that transformation were planted in this year of intense personal loss.

For absolute beginners studying the Seerah, this chapter marks a turning point. Up to this point, the story has centered almost entirely on Makkah, on the first believers, and on the reaction of Quraysh. From this point onward, the life of the Prophet ﷺ will increasingly involve other cities, other peoples, and wider political and social dimensions.

Yet in the middle of all these changes, the heart of the story remains the same. A man ﷺ devoted to Allah, calling people to worship their Lord alone, staying firm through grief and hardship, and trusting that his Lord will never abandon him.

The Year of Sorrow teaches that the path of guidance is not always smooth, but it is always guided. Out of the darkness of that year, Allah brought the light of Madinah, the strength of a united community, and the completion of the religion.

In the next chapters, we will see how this new hope began to appear in concrete form, through the journey to Ta’if, the miraculous night of Isra and Mi'raj, and the first steps on the road that would lead, finally, to Madinah.

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