12. Conversation Skills and Strategies
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Overview
In this chapter you will learn how to make your Georgian sound more natural in real conversations. The focus here is not on new grammar, but on strategies that help you start, keep, and gently control a conversation with native speakers.
Later chapters in this section will go deeper into specific functions like asking for clarification or expressing agreement. Here, you get a general toolkit: simple patterns, short phrases, and ways to react when you understand only part of what your partner is saying.
Keep in mind that conversation skills develop over time. At the beginner level, it is enough to:
- Start a short exchange
- Signal you are listening
- Ask someone to repeat
- Change topic politely
- End a conversation politely
This chapter gives you flexible templates to do exactly that.
Key idea: Conversation skills are mostly about how you use the Georgian you already know. Short phrases like "really?", "and you?", "sorry?", or "one moment" can keep a conversation flowing even with very simple vocabulary.
Basic Conversation Flow
Typical conversational moves
Most everyday conversations follow a simple flow:
- Start or respond to contact
- Exchange basic information
- Show interest or reaction
- Change or close the topic
Here is a very simple example with patterns to notice:
A: แแแแแ แฏแแแ. แแ แแแ แแแ . แจแแ?
gamardjoba. me ana var. shen?
Hello. I am Ana. You?
B: แแแแแ แฏแแแ แแแ. แแ แแฃแแ แแแ .
gamardjoba ana. me luka var.
Hello Ana. I am Luka.
A: แกแแกแแแแแแแแ.
sasiamovnoa.
Nice to meet you.
B: แแแช.
mets.
Me too.
Even with very little vocabulary you can already:
- Greet
- Say your name
- Ask for the other person
- React politely
We will reuse and extend these patterns in later chapters.
Simple question and echo patterns
You already know that Georgian uses a question mark ? in writing and a rising intonation for yes/no questions. At the conversational level, one very powerful strategy is echoing what you heard plus a small question.
Examples:
แจแแ แแแแแแกแแแแ แฎแแ .
shen tbilisidan khar.
You are from Tbilisi.
You can keep the conversation going with:
- แ แแแแแแ แฎแแแแ แแแแแแกแจแ แฎแแ ?
ramdeni khania tbilisshi khar?
How long have you been in Tbilisi? - แแ แแฅ แแแแฌแแแก?
da ak mogtsโons?
And do you like it here?
Notice how you just attach a small question to what the other person said. This is an easy and natural strategy in Georgian.
Turn Taking and Keeping Conversation Alive
Short listener reactions
Little words that show you are listening are extremely useful. You can use them even if your vocabulary is small.
Common listener reactions:
| Georgian | Transliteration | Meaning / Use |
|---|---|---|
| แฐแ? | ha? | Huh?, What?, when you did not hear |
| แ แ? | ra? | What?, informal |
| แแแ แแ. | kโargi. | Okay., I see. |
| แแแ แแ แแ. | kโargi ki. | Yeah, okay., I get it. |
| แแแ แแแ? | martla? | Really? |
| แฐแ? | ho? | Yeah?, Really? (showing interest) |
| แแฐแ. | aha. | Ah., I see. |
| แฃแ! | ui! | Oh!, Wow!, Surprise |
Examples in context:
A: แแฆแแก แซแแแแแ แแแฆแแแแ แแแ .
dghes dzalian daghlili var.
Today I am very tired.
B: แแแ แแแ?
martla?
Really?
A: แฐแ, แแแแ แ แแแแฃแจแแแ.
ho, bevri vimushave.
Yeah, I worked a lot.
You do not need new grammar to use these. They are pure reaction items.
Passing the turn back
When someone asks you something and you want to return the question, you can often just add แแ แจแแ? "and you?".
Useful pattern:
Pattern:
แแ แจแแ? / da shen? = and you?
Attach it after an answer to keep the conversation going.
Examples:
A: แจแแ แ แแแแ แฎแแ ?
shen rogor khar?
How are you?
B: แแแ แแแ แแแ , แแแแแแแ. แแ แจแแ?
kโargad var, madloba. da shen?
I am fine, thanks. And you?
A: แแแช แแแ แแแ.
mets kโargad.
I am also fine.
More examples:
A: แแแแแแกแแแแ แฎแแ ?
tbilisidan khar?
Are you from Tbilisi?
B: แแ แ, แแแแฃแแแแแ แแแ . แแ แจแแ?
ara, batumidan var. da shen?
No, I am from Batumi. And you?
Controlling Speed and Difficulty
Saying you speak "a little"
If someone speaks too quickly, or their Georgian is too complex, you need formulas to protect yourself.
Two very useful phrases:
- แชแแขแแก แแแแแแ แแแแ แฅแแ แแแแแฃแ แแ.
tsโotas vlapโarakob kartvelurad.
I speak Georgian a little. - แแแแ แแแแแแ แแแแ, แแแฎแแแ.
nela ilapโarakโet, gtkhovt.
Speak slowly, please.
You can combine them:
แชแแขแแก แแแแแแ แแแแ แฅแแ แแแแแฃแ แแ, แแแแ แแแแแแ แแแแ, แแแฎแแแ.
tsโotas vlapโarakob kartvelurad, nela ilapโarakโet, gtkhovt.
I speak Georgian a little, speak slowly please.
Asking to repeat
To manage real-life conversations at beginner level, you must be able to say "I did not understand" and "can you repeat".
Useful patterns:
| Georgian | Transliteration | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| แแ แแแกแแแก. | ar mesmis. | I do not understand. |
| แแแแแ แแ แแฎแแ, แแแฎแแแ. | kโidev ertkhel, gtkhovt. | Once again, please. |
| แจแแแซแแแแ แฃแคแ แ แแแแ? | sheidzleba upro nela? | Could you speak more slowly? |
| แแแฎแแแ, แแแแแแแ แแ. | gtkhovt, gai-meoret. | Please repeat. |
Example mini dialog:
A: (speaks fast)
B: แแ แแแกแแแก, แแแฎแแแ, แแแแแ แแ แแฎแแ.
ar mesmis, gtkhovt, kโidev ertkhel.
I do not understand, please once again.
A: (repeats more slowly)
B: แแฎแแ แแแกแแแก, แแแแแแแ.
akhla mesmis, madloba.
Now I understand, thank you.
Politeness in Conversation Management
Softening and being indirect
Georgian often expresses politeness with modal words and gentle questions. Even at beginner level, they make your speech sound nicer.
Common softeners:
| Georgian | Transliteration | Meaning / Use |
|---|---|---|
| แแแฎแแแ | gtkhovt | please (formal) |
| แแฃ แจแแแซแแแแ | tu sheidzleba | if it is possible, please |
| แจแแแซแแแแ? | sheidzleba? | is it possible?, may I? |
| แฃแแแชแ แแแแ | ukโatsravad | excuse me, I am sorry (formal) |
| แแแแแจแ | bodishi | sorry (informal) |
Examples:
แฃแแ แแแแแ, แแแแ แแแแแแ แแแแ, แแแฎแแแ.
ukโatsravad, nela ilapโarakโet, gtkhovt.
Excuse me, speak slowly, please.
แแฃ แจแแแซแแแแ, แแแแแ แแ แแฎแแ.
tu sheidzleba, kโidev ertkhel.
If it is possible, one more time.
Saying "no" nicely
Sometimes you will want to refuse something or say you cannot do something. At beginner level, it is usually enough to say you do not speak well or that it is difficult for you.
Useful patterns:
- แชแแขแ แแแญแแ แก แฅแแ แแฃแแแ แแแแแ แแแ.
tsโota michโirs kartulad lapโarakโi.
It is a bit difficult for me to speak Georgian. - แแแ แแแแแแ แแแแ แแแ แแแ แฅแแ แแฃแแแ.
ver vlapโarakob kโargad kartulad.
I cannot speak Georgian well.
Combine with a polite start:
แฃแแแชแ แแแแ, แแแ แแแแแแ แแแแ แแแ แแแ แฅแแ แแฃแแแ.
ukโatsravad, ver vlapโarakob kโargad kartulad.
Excuse me, I cannot speak Georgian well.
Opening, Changing, and Closing Topics
Opening a light conversation
You already know greetings from earlier chapters. To start or restart a conversation beyond "hello", you can use simple neutral topics like "how is it", "do you like it", "what do you do". Here we just give you strategic examples; the exact grammar forms appear in other chapters.
Handy start questions:
| Georgian | Transliteration | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| แ แแแแ แฎแแ ? | rogor khar? | How are you? (informal) |
| แ แแแแ แฎแแ แ? | rogor khart? | How are you? (formal / plural) |
| แ แแแแ แแแแฌแแแก แแแแแแกแ? | rogor mogtsโons tโbilisi? | How do you like Tbilisi? |
| แ แแก แแแแแแ? | ras akโeteb? | What are you doing? (informal) |
| แ แแก แกแแฅแแแแแแแ? | ras sakmianobt? | What do you do? (formal) |
You might not be able to answer in long sentences yet, but even a very short reply is already natural:
แแแ แแแ แแแ .
kโargad var.
I am fine.
แแแแฌแแแก.
momtsโons.
I like it.
Changing the topic
To move the conversation to a different subject, short signals are enough:
| Georgian | Transliteration | Meaning / Function |
|---|---|---|
| แกแฎแแแแแจแแ แแก... | skhvatโishoris... | by the way..., incidentally... |
| แแกแ... | ise... | so..., by the way... |
| apropos, แจแแแแซแแแ...? | apropos, gentsโia...? | by the way, can you...? (informal) |
Example:
แแกแ, แแแแแแกแจแ แแแแฎแแแก แแแ แฉแแแ?
ise, tโbilisshi didkhans darchโebi?
So, will you stay long in Tbilisi?
Closing a conversation politely
You already know goodbye formulas from greetings. To close a conversation more smoothly, you can add a soft closing line.
Useful endings:
| Georgian | Transliteration | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| แแแ แแ, แฌแแแแแ. | kโargi, tsโavedi. | Okay, I am off. (informal) |
| แแแ แแ, แฃแแแ แฌแแแแแ. | kโargi, unda tsโavide. | Okay, I have to go. |
| แกแแกแแแแแแแ แแงแ. | sasiamovno iko. | It was pleasant., Nice talking. |
| แแแ แแแ แแงแแแ. | kโargad iqavi. | Stay well., Take care. (informal) |
| แแแ แแแ แแงแแแแ. | kโargad iqavit. | Take care. (formal / plural) |
Example mini dialog:
A: แแแ แแ, แฃแแแ แฌแแแแแ. แกแแกแแแแแแแ แแงแ.
kโargi, unda tsโavide. sasiamovno iko.
Okay, I must go. It was nice.
B: แแแ แแแ แแงแแแ.
kโargad iqavi.
Take care.
Managing Difficult Moments
When you do not know a word
As a beginner you will often miss vocabulary. Instead of going silent, use simple strategies like asking or switching to a language you share.
Very helpful patterns:
- แฅแแ แแฃแแแ แ แแแแ แแ แแก...?
kartulad rogor aris...?
How is ... in Georgian? - แ แแแแ แแแฅแแ แฅแแ แแฃแแแ...?
rogor vtโkva kartulad...?
How do I say ... in Georgian?
Example:
แแแแแจแ, แฅแแ แแฃแแแ แ แแแแ แแ แแก "ticket"?
bodishi, kartulad rogor aris "ticket"?
Sorry, how is "ticket" in Georgian?
Even if you say the English word, using this pattern is natural and polite.
Asking for help in conversation
You may need to ask someone to help you communicate. A couple of simple formulas can save you in many situations.
Useful phrases:
| Georgian | Transliteration | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| แจแแแแซแแแ แแแแแฎแแแ แ? | gentsโia damekhmaro? | Can you help me? (informal) |
| แจแแแแซแแแแ แแแแแฎแแแ แแ? | shegidzliat damekhmarot? | Could you help me? (formal) |
| แฅแแ แแแแแ แแ แแแ , แแแแแแแ แ แแแฎแแแ แแแ. | kartveli ar var, megobari mekhmareba. | I am not Georgian, my friend is helping. |
| แฅแแ แแฃแแแ แแ แแแชแ แแแ แแแ. | kartulad ar vitsi kโargad. | I do not know Georgian well. |
You might combine them:
แฅแแ แแฃแแแ แแ แแแชแ แแแ แแแ, แจแแแแซแแแแ แแแแแฎแแแ แแ?
kartulad ar vitsi kโargad, shegidzliat damekhmarot?
I do not know Georgian well, could you help me?
Emotional Tone and Friendly Conversation
Showing interest and sympathy
To sound friendly and involved, you can add simple emotional comments. No new grammar is needed.
Common reactions:
| Georgian | Transliteration | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| แซแแแแแ แแแ แแ. | dzalian kโargi. | Very good. |
| แซแแแแแ แแแฎแแ แแ. | dzalian mkharia. | I am very glad. |
| แกแแแฌแฃแฎแแ แแ. | samtsโukharoa. | It is a pity., I am sorry. |
| แแ แแฃแจแแแก. | araushavs. | It is okay., Never mind. |
| แซแแแ แแแแแ แแ. | dzan magaria. | That is really cool. (slangy) |
Examples:
A: แแแแแชแแ แฉแแแแแแ แ.
gamotsda chavabare.
I passed the exam.
B: แซแแแแแ แแแฎแแ แแ!
dzalian mkharia!
I am very glad!
A: แขแแแแคแแแ แฌแแแแฅแแแชแ.
teleponi tsโavikvetsi.
I dropped my phone.
B: แกแแแฌแฃแฎแแ แแ, แแแแ แแ แแ แแฃแจแแแก.
samtsโukharoa, magram araushavs.
That is a pity, but it is okay.
Buying time when you need to think
Sometimes you need a moment to think or look for a word. Instead of silence, use short fillers, which sound natural and keep the conversation smooth.
Useful fillers:
| Georgian | Transliteration | Function |
|---|---|---|
| แฐแ... | hm... | thinking sound |
| แแ... | mm... | thinking sound, hesitation |
| แแแ... | aba... | well..., so..., to start a sentence |
| แฎแแแ... | khoda... | so then..., linking story parts |
Example:
แแแ... แชแแขแ แ แแฃแแ แแแแฎแแ แแ แแก.
aba... tsโota rtuli kitkhva aris.
Well... it is a bit of a difficult question.
Practical Mini Scripts
Script: "I do not understand, please help"
You can adapt this in many real situations.
แฃแแแชแ แแแแ.
ukโatsravad.
Excuse me.
แฅแแ แแฃแแแ แชแแขแแก แแแแแแ แแแแ.
kartulad tsโotas vlapโarakob.
I speak Georgian a little.
แแแแ แแแแแแ แแแแ, แแแฎแแแ.
nela ilapโarakโet, gtkhovt.
Speak slowly, please.
แแฃ แจแแแซแแแแ, แแแแแ แแ แแฎแแ แแแแแแแ แแ.
tu sheidzleba, kโidev ertkhel gaimeoret.
If possible, repeat once more.
Script: "Friendly opening and closing"
แแแแแ แฏแแแ.
gamardjoba.
Hello.
แแ [Name] แแแ . แจแแ?
me [Name] var. shen?
I am [Name]. And you?
แกแแกแแแแแแแแ.
sasiamovnoa.
Nice to meet you.
...(short talk)...
แแแ แแ, แฃแแแ แฌแแแแแ.
kโargi, unda tsโavide.
Okay, I have to go.
แกแแกแแแแแแแ แแงแ, แแแ แแแ แแงแแแ.
sasiamovno iko, kโargad iqavi.
It was nice, take care.
New Vocabulary for This Chapter
| Georgian | Transliteration | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| แแแ แแแ? | martla? | really? |
| แฐแ? | ho? | yeah?, really? |
| แแฐแ. | aha. | ah, I see |
| แฃแ! | ui! | oh!, wow! |
| แแแ แแแ แแแ . | kโargad var. | I am fine. |
| แแแช. | mets. | me too |
| แแ แชแแขแแก แแแแแแ แแแแ แฅแแ แแฃแแแ. | me tsโotas vlapโarakob kartulad. | I speak Georgian a little. |
| แแแแ แแแแแแ แแแแ, แแแฎแแแ. | nela ilapโarakโet, gtkhovt. | speak slowly, please |
| แแแแแ แแ แแฎแแ, แแแฎแแแ. | kโidev ertkhel, gtkhovt. | once again, please |
| แแ แแแกแแแก. | ar mesmis. | I do not understand |
| แจแแแซแแแแ? | sheidzleba? | may I?, is it possible? |
| แแฃ แจแแแซแแแแ | tu sheidzleba | if possible, please |
| แฃแแแชแ แแแแ | ukโatsravad | excuse me, I am sorry (formal) |
| แแแแแจแ | bodishi | sorry (informal) |
| แจแแแแซแแแ แแแแแฎแแแ แ? | gentsโia damekhmaro? | can you help me? (informal) |
| แจแแแแซแแแแ แแแแแฎแแแ แแ? | shegidzliat damekhmarot? | could you help me? (formal) |
| แแแ แแแ. | kโargia. | it is good |
| แซแแแแแ แแแ แแ. | dzalian kโargi. | very good |
| แซแแแแแ แแแฎแแ แแ. | dzalian mkharia. | I am very glad |
| แกแแแฌแฃแฎแแ แแ. | samtsโukharoa. | it is a pity |
| แแ แแฃแจแแแก. | araushavs. | it is okay, never mind |
| แแแ... | aba... | well..., so... |
| แแกแ... | ise... | so..., by the way... |
| แกแฎแแแแแจแแ แแก... | skhvatโishoris... | by the way... |
| แฎแแแ... | khoda... | so then..., linking in stories |
| แกแแกแแแแแแแ แแงแ. | sasiamovno iko. | it was pleasant, nice talking |
| แฃแแแ แฌแแแแแ. | unda tsโavide. | I have to go |
| แฌแแแแแ. | tsโavedi. | I am off |
| แแแ แแแ แแงแแแ. | kโargad iqavi. | take care (informal) |
| แแแ แแแ แแงแแแแ. | kโargad iqavit. | take care (formal / plural) |
| แฅแแ แแฃแแแ แ แแแแ แแ แแก...? | kartulad rogor aris...? | how is ... in Georgian? |
| แ แแแแ แแแฅแแ แฅแแ แแฃแแแ...? | rogor vtโkva kartulad...? | how do I say ... in Georgian? |
| แฅแแ แแฃแแ แแ แแแชแ แแแ แแแ. | kartulad ar vitsi kโargad. | I do not know Georgian well |
| แชแแขแ แแแญแแ แก แฅแแ แแฃแแแ แแแแแ แแแ. | tsโota michโirs kartulad lapโarakโi. | speaking Georgian is a bit difficult for me |
| แฅแแ แแแแแ แแ แแแ , แแแแแแแ แ แแแฎแแแ แแแ. | kartveli ar var, megobari mekhmareba. | I am not Georgian, my friend is helping |
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